On a personal note, in 1991 I opened a small shop selling old furniture and curios; I had stuff so I sold it. Whether damaged or nasty looking,
each was turned into and object of desire to someone. Self taught and determined, I became adept at refurbishing and refinishing and paid
my bills by auctioning off the larger, more expensive pieces and selling the rest along with flea market, garage sale and garbage finds. Thanks
to the faith and generousity of a kind and trusting stranger, Ron Peake, Charlotte's Place opened its doors and the rest is history. Naming the
store was quite the debate; friends were full of suggestions but as I'd decorated with my stuff, it looked like Charlotte's place, hence the name!
Serving a tough market for just over two years, I met and married Will, closed the shop and began working on his gem-in-the-rough house and yard;
to a decorator, a dream space. As the house transitioned, the grass became noticeably a very big, albeit healthy and well manicured, blob of green
inside the chain link fence, another issue of contention. Seeking solace from grief at the loss of a loving friend to cancer, and revisiting her joy
when receiving the tiniest garden posy awakened something inside and whatever happened at that moment, I literally blossomed.
My railroader husband came home to a reasonable portion of his manicured lawn lying in a huge heap (now one of many berms) and asked what
I was doing. "Gardening!" "But you don't know a thing about gardening!" "What has THAT got to do with anything?" may or may not have
been said aloud as I forged on, believing the 'how' would just come to me just as I saw it in my mind; there's little difference between it and interior
decorating. Patiently working and waiting, it became the restful 4 season garden it is today. It's an amazing space we share with our dogs and is
used all year round. Gardening is cathartic, healing to the body, mind and soul, and many heartaches have been buried in that field of gumbo. It's
an excellent physical work out too. Today our garden, front to back, is as much a part of our home as the living room and is used in ways not
thought on that first day. It has evolved into a winding series of courtyard gardens, now entirely paved, with vantage points, vistas and restful
places to sit quietly or share conversation with friends. The perennial beds and trees are still comanded to "be small" and create a unifying,
seamless transition connecting the boulevard to the back gate, and from the outside in. It leaves us far removed from the city's bustle when in our
tiny, old St. Boniface 'Eden'. Neither the house or yard were obviously special, but the naked potential was and today they have been written of
in various newspapers and magazines; there is absolutely "no place quite like it". Gardens are all about hopes and dreams. Hope is always alive in
a garden. Initially, without a clue how to start a garden, today I design for others and teach landscaping and interior decorating classes at various
school divisions through their continuing education programs. Remember your yard is as personal a space as your home and you should follow
your heart. If what you've done makes YOU smile and happy, then it's not about someone else's opinion unless you're asking. Advice is a good
when you're stuck for ideas but ultimately the place you spend your time in is the place you call home, inside or out. If criticized, don't invite them
back; gardeners are quick to volunteer what they think is the (their) best idea and are often too opinionated! Remember too, Nature is a force
to be reckoned with; 'She' is unreliable, unreasonable, unforgiving, relentless and unkind but oh, the wonders she will show you and the breaths
she'll take away. In one of myriad incredible moments you may witness the first sighting of a hummingbird or witness a flower as it opens almost
in front of your eyes. There is magic out there, you need only believe in it to see! A side note: white and green are definitely colors in the garden
and sometimes, it's all you need or want; that's up to YOU!!!!